“No matter how much suffering you went through, you never wanted to let go of those memories.” – Haruki Murakami
the moments that bring us pain are the ones that make us who we are. the pain gives us strength to be careful. the joy makes us appreciate life. but with pain comes suffering and without feeling the essence of pain one cant get over it. and without that pain one can not remember the time which led you believe that you are going to get over it.
one feels pain when some loved one dies, but the feeling of pain is that great feeling which will remind you of them. you can not remember them without living again the pain of their memory. their memory will remind you of all the memories you cannot create with them anymore.
best example of this concept is shown the movie – the eternal sunshine of the spotless mind